Creating a Positive Relationship with Social Media

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Using Social Media In Eating Disorder Recovery

In this ever changing world with constant technological advancements, our reliance on phones and computers isn’t going anywhere anytime soon. With that comes increased usage of social media. Also, as I’m writing this, it’s the middle of quarantine and I’ve noticed I’m using social media much more often.

Social media certainly has its pros and cons. There are so many accounts out there that promote dieting and weight loss in some way shape or form. Following these accounts can increase negative body image, harmful comparisons, and food guilt.

BUT! I’m a firm believer social media can be super helpful for those in recovery, when it is used appropriately. This blog will highlight some ways to use social media to your advantage. I also created a handout, with my lovely colleague Bobbi Boteler, on social media tips. So be sure to check it out!

Here are 7 tips on how to positively use social media:

Follow recovery centered accounts

And Unfollow or mute anyone that makes you feel badly about yourself. This can include food bloggers, “influencers,” or even friends you often compare yourself to. I’d recommend to unfollow anyone on Tiktok or Instagram that talks about what they ate in a day, discusses home work outs, or centers their body, especially if it’s a smaller body. You can access the list Bobbi and I created of positive accounts by downloading the handout. You can also follow me! You can also access our Facebook page here.

Add diversity to your feed.

Be sure to follow a variety of folks coming from all different backgrounds, races, ethnicities, gender identities, body sizes…etc.

Consider sharing your journey on social media

There is absolutely ZERO pressure to do this. Some people find this super therapeutic and helpful, others may find this too intimidating and unhelpful. It might feel freeing to be open about your experiences. You may even consider creating a private recovery account where you don’t have to share personal information but you can post about your recovery journey and follow only recovery oriented accounts.

Be mindful of time spent on social media

I have time limits set for quite a few apps on my own cell phone (Instagram, Pinterest, snapchat and email). It can be so easy to scroll through as a procrastination tool or to have something to do with your hands. I personally allow myself an hour on instagram, 30 minutes on pinterest, 15 minutes on snap chat and 30 minutes on email. But you can set this up in whatever way you think is best! I’d recommend starting with a longer time limit and you can decrease from there.

Check in with yourself 

Check in around how you feel after you have been on social media for an extended period of time. If you are feeling inadequate and anxious, you are more than likely following people that are toxic for you. You likely need a break. Or to do some cleaning of your social media accounts and follow people who are more uplifting.

Unfollow certain individuals

Like models, “influencers” and celebrities, especially those that promote dieting and ideal beauty standards. And while you’re at it, unfollow (or mute) those who promote dieting of any kind.

Turn off Notifications

I’ve found it really helpful to turn off notifications for my social media. So this way, I’m not checking it every time someone “likes” a photo or messages me. I can choose to go on as I please. And don’t feel a need to check every time my phone lights up.

Save posts that really resonate with you

So you can visit them on a tough day.

Send posts to your team

Particularly posts that you thought were harmful to your RD or therapist, so you can talk about it in session. It can be helpful to discuss ways to reframe eating disorder or diet thoughts that pop up.

Make sure your feed has healthy, positive role models 

These role models who can help you feel empowered, confident and balanced. See below for some of my favorite social media accounts.

Take breaks from the screen

This is something I’ve been trying to do more often! Again, writing this in the middle of quarantine and I’ve been spending 10+ hours a day staring at my computer or phone. See if you can take 10–15 minute breaks every so often throughout the day. I’ve noticed a difference as I’m doing this!

Positive Social Media Accounts to Follow:

Instagram Accounts:

Alex Raymond, RD, LD, CEDRD

Alex Raymond, RD, LD, CEDRD

is an eating disorder dietitian in private practice in College Park and Columbia, MD. Alex specializes in treating individuals struggling with anorexia, bulimia, and binge eating disorder. She practices from an intuitive eating model and enjoys working with individuals to improve body image. She is a passionate Health at Every Size © advocate and anti-diet dietitian. Alex provides eating disorder nutrition counseling in College Park and Columbia, MD. Alex's College Park office is walking distance from the University of Maryland. Follow her on Instagram:



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